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Post by kirbear on Mar 23, 2017 18:39:09 GMT -5
So, I'm laid on the sofa downstairs again and I have brought my son with me. I have been fast asleep since about 9.30pm and I was just woken by my husband to ask if I'm feeling ok. I answered 'yes, why'? And he proceeded to tell me he felt really n*.
He has been having some really early mornings this last couple of weeks and has been going through some stress at work. He has ended up having a couple of drinks each night (nothing too severe). He went to play football between 8-9 this evening then came home and had his tea. He only had one can of beer. I just asked him how long he has been n* for and he said since he came to bed (about 10). It is now 11.30 in the evening and I have come downstairs, I have also brought my son down with me. My husband feels like he will v*. I'm absolutely terrified all over again! I had this a few weeks ago but I knew deep down then that it was alcohol related - this time it's not.
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Post by Razzle on Mar 23, 2017 19:32:22 GMT -5
Hey Kirbear, I'm sorry you're in this predicament. Has your husband possibly eaten anything odd? Maybe he is feeling N* from playing football? I know sometimes physical exertion can throw out stomachs off, especially if we eat something heavy like diary prior. You are with your son now, so I am sure you are fine. As for your husband, I assume he doesn't have emet. Hopefully he will sleep it off and all will be well in the AM
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Post by kirbear on Mar 23, 2017 19:44:23 GMT -5
We both had the same tea but it was after he got in from football. He seemed fine when he got in and ate all his tea but started to feel n* about half he after eating. I feel ok just n* from anxiety definitely. My boy is fine he's sound asleep bless him.
I can't sleep, I've got relaxing sounds playing but all I can hear is my husband up and down out of bed - I'm not even sure if he's v* yet but he must feel like he will else he wouldn't keep going to the bathroom. I just want to get in the car out the way but I think that's too extreme.
I've text him to check he's ok and he said he hasn't v* yet, he feels a bit better but still feels n*.
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Post by samimichelle08 on Mar 23, 2017 21:25:08 GMT -5
Oh no, that's always a horrible thing to hear--that your SO doesn't feel good. Anxiety heightens drastically. Try and remember that it could be something he ate. And trust him when he says he's feeling better. I hope things get better for you tonight ❤️
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Post by kirbear on Mar 24, 2017 1:39:33 GMT -5
It's is now 6.38 in the morning. He is getting up to go to work, he says he hasn't v*, I asked if he feels better he said yes other than his belly being a bit churney.
Update: I went to use the loo but saw (warning poss graphic) a different colour on the side of the loo. I then questioned him and he said he didn't v* he was just spitting a bit. Why would spit be a different colour? Yes he had tomato soup not long before bed but surely that wouldn't come out in his spit. I'm convinced he's lied to me now but I feel even more freaked out than ever x
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Post by kirbear on Mar 24, 2017 3:59:53 GMT -5
He's come home from work now and gone back to bed as he feels awful he said. Goodness sake I can't handle this. I'm not at work today so can't really avoid home. I'm going in to town and then to the gym but that's it x
Another update. So, I had a nice walk up to the gym then walked back again - I didn't drive as the longer I'm out the better. It is now 12.20 in the afternoon. He is still in bed, he feels very n*, he's hot and he aches particularly his back.
Now, I'm hoping it's one of his 'funny turns'. a few months after I first met him he had his first one. We were in Ikea and he started to feel n*, he spent 2 days in bed aching, hot and all that business. I think he v* once. This happened several more times over the years, he finally went to see a doctor and was referred to a specialist as his blood levels were all over the place. The specialist checked for diabetes and even malaria - all sorts of different things. He concluded that he was just 'one of those people'. It seems to come after a bout of stress or a busy period. (The first time it happened we had been to IKEA to get nursery furniture as I had found out I was pregnant early on in the relationship (our son was born on our 1 year anniversary)!!! So this was obviously stressful for him! Haha
We have been together almost 8 years now and married for almost 4.
Thinking back these past few weeks/months he has been going through a lot with work. He handed his notice in and they didn't want to accept it, they offered him unpaid leave for a few months but yesterday he went over for a meeting and told them he will not take them up on the offer. He has also been having some late nights and very early mornings, drinking alcohol again most nights (just a couple of pints). When he was in the job he has been in the past 2 years he barely drank (he wasn't allowed) and he didn't get even one of these 'do's)! I'm hoping that this isn't a bug but just one of these episodes. I'm also wondering if the alcohol has anything to do with it. (He does still drink on his nights off and whatnot when he pops out to the pub but he has been having a couple of casual ones of an evening the past few weeks). Sorry for the essay!
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Post by tdunham21 on Mar 24, 2017 18:34:00 GMT -5
How are things now? Your husband sounds like mine ...he has those episodes like once or twice a year where I think he gets "overtired" from working so much, little sleep, etc. he usually gets a headache, body aches, n* and sometimes v* but then sleeps for like 24 hours and is better. Every single time I am convinced it's a sv and that I will catch it which I haven't. Maybe it has been an sv before and I just haven't caught it because I bleached well etc. either way I know the feeling as I have often felt like leaving and get so panicked. Try to hang in there I know it's hard!
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Post by Itsme on Mar 25, 2017 3:14:18 GMT -5
How is your husband now? Sending you positive vibes. X
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Post by kirbear on Mar 25, 2017 4:13:23 GMT -5
How are things now? Your husband sounds like mine ...he has those episodes like once or twice a year where I think he gets "overtired" from working so much, little sleep, etc. he usually gets a headache, body aches, n* and sometimes v* but then sleeps for like 24 hours and is better. Every single time I am convinced it's a sv and that I will catch it which I haven't. Maybe it has been an sv before and I just haven't caught it because I bleached well etc. either way I know the feeling as I have often felt like leaving and get so panicked. Try to hang in there I know it's hard! Thank you! That's reassuring. Even though I know he's had these episodes previously (even before my meet got this bad so wasn't bleaching) and I never caught anything.
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Post by kirbear on Mar 25, 2017 4:17:14 GMT -5
How is your husband now? Sending you positive vibes. X Thank you! He's much better today, he sorting out the garden. He slept so much yesterday and he got himself something to eat at about 3pm (beans and cheese toastie) then had a bath, came back to bed after his bath, took painkillers at about 6.30pm and at about 7.30pm just had some more toast. If he had a sv* and was still feeling pretty shocking (mostly hot and aching) then surely that food wouldn't have agreed with him, particularly the cheese and beans!! He slept right through the night still and seems better today. He didn't actively v* or so he says. Will I be ok if he didn't v* and just felt n*?
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