Post by tciz on Jan 4, 2017 2:08:27 GMT -5
I spent the weekend at my bf’s parents’ house and on Sunday morning his mom woke up with bad diarrhea and v* once. Later that day my bf complained of a slightly upset stomach and we left to go to my house 2 hours away. By Sunday evening my bf was laying in my bed with severe stomach cramps and said he felt like he was going to v*. He also said that he couldn’t get warm and had severe back pain. I left and went to stay with my parents to avoid getting sick. By Monday morning my bf said that he felt better and had never v* and never had diarrhea, and then he drove back to his apartment where he lives by himself. That same morning his mom called me telling me that she felt fine but that his dad was now sick. It is now 1 a.m. Wednesday morning and I returned to my house a few hours ago and I have bleached all surfaces he may have touched, including the toilet. He invited me to come over to his apartment at 7:00 Wednesday evening and I am curious as to whether or not he could still be contagious or if I should even worry since he never actually v* or had diarrhea. I am incredibly emetophobic and paranoid that he might still be contagious or have “contaminated” his apartment and that I might risk getting sick if I go over there, even though I was in close quarters with him all weekend right before he got sick and shared a bathroom with his sick mom and I am still not sick. By tomorrow night it will have been 3 days since his very short bout with this sickness and I am just wondering if I would be smarter staying at my disinfected home or if it would be ok for me to go to his apartment and be around him and use his bathroom, sleep in his bed, etc. without worrying about getting sick. I have been researching sv* non-stop for the past few days and have even made myself sick to my stomach with anxiety and I am really looking for some advice to ease my mind and help me to figure out what I should do and whether or not I should wait to see my boyfriend. I know this sounds silly but my anxiety sometimes gets the best of me and I figured I should post this question somewhere before I go crazy.
Note: I am new to this thread so I am not really sure of all of the abbreviations and such used so I kind of wung it. Also, I apologize for the length of this post but I wanted to include details so I could get some specific advice to ease my nerves. Thanks in advance for any advice and I hope you all stay healthy this winter!
Note: I am new to this thread so I am not really sure of all of the abbreviations and such used so I kind of wung it. Also, I apologize for the length of this post but I wanted to include details so I could get some specific advice to ease my nerves. Thanks in advance for any advice and I hope you all stay healthy this winter!